Whole

Whole

We are the opposite of each other in every way

You go in one direction and I go the other

No matter how hard we try to be the same the further we go apart.

We fight because we do not see the other ones pain

We go deeper in our own despair because we trust what we know and are used too

We use only words but is never followed up  by actions

The end result is only sadness and anger

Out of theses differences there can only be happiness

We will never let each down no matter how hard the trial maybe

It is looking at the differences and using it to grow

For the differences is what makes us complete

We put our faith in each other in every step of our walk. We trust that nothing will ever dampen our relationship

For we are opposite but we are also Whole.

Joseph Wieck

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love cover a multitude of sins.”  (1 Peter 4:8)

Throughout my long-term relationship I have grown closer to her. I have also felt very far away from her due to all the differences we have about each other. We are the opposite of each other in most things. Such things as movies, books, tv shows, God, and many more. It has been hard learning to cope with these changes. We would let our anger get the best of us or say things and not do them. The biggest thing we have learned is dealing with the variety of differences that we have and trying to work them out. One come thing that has kept us both together is the love of Christ and not letting the little things get to each other. We learn to compromise and try to understand where each of us is coming from. In order for us to be whole we have to be opposite of each other. What I may need changing she does very well and is able to help me out. This works both ways but you both have to be willing to work with each other. Trust me we are stilling learning this and both of us are not willing to give up on each other. The moment that happens the relationship will never be succesful.  I pray as you read this that you get a better understanding that it is okay to be the opposite of each and that you all yourself to grow into the differences then what you are used too.

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